Beyond the music,
there's a whole life.
This is me, the life I'm building — and the people I'd love to meet along the way.
Looking for love? Maybe.
New friends? Absolutely. 🤍
I'm probably best described as a quiet dreamer with a slightly overactive mind.
I'm thoughtful, sensitive, analytical and ambitious — but there's also plenty of humour, sarcasm and occasionally questionable double meanings involved. 😂
I love having ideas. Even more than that, I love turning them into something real.
That's probably why my life currently includes an ambitious house project in the Austrian Alps, a regular job, music, creative projects — and approximately seventeen things I'd like to accomplish at the same time.
I'm not the loudest person in the room and I don't need to be. Give me good people, an interesting conversation, something to laugh about and somewhere I feel comfortable — and I'm pretty happy.
And it’s definitely not supposed to replace getting to know each other in real life.
Think of this page as a glimpse into my life — who I am, what matters to me and what I’m trying to build. Especially when meeting might mean hours on a train or even a flight, I’d rather give you enough to know whether you’re genuinely curious about the person waiting at the other end.
Fifteen minutes here can probably tell you things I’d struggle to explain this clearly on a first date.
But there’s still a lot you won’t find on this page. And hopefully, there’s a whole life on your side I know nothing about yet.
So if anything you read here leaves you curious, confused or wanting to know more — good.
We’ll have something to talk about.
I know the Instagram scroll just as well as you do.
One impossibly beautiful guy after another. Perfect body. Perfect life. Huge following. Somewhere between New York, Dubai and a beach that somehow always has perfect light.
And yes — sometimes I compare myself too.
I'm not the hottest guy on Instagram. I don't have the biggest following. And if I'm completely honest: sure, sometimes that life looks pretty amazing. 😂
But constantly measuring myself against people I don't actually know doesn't make my own life better. It mostly makes me forget what I've already built.
I'm not trying to build a life that looks luxurious.
I'm trying to build one that feels rich in all the ways that matter to me.Good friends. A home people love coming back to. Music that reaches someone. Long dinners. Mountain mornings. Ridiculous ideas. Someone to love. People I can trust.
I genuinely don't care whether you have 200 followers or 200,000.
If you're kind, genuine, curious and we make each other laugh, you're already much more interesting to me than a number next to your name.
Over the past few months, I’ve spent almost every free day and every spare hour outside work on the house or on new songs.
The house and the music still mean a lot to me, and I’ll continue investing time in both.
This has been the most ambitious project of my life — and I've been working on it for years.
I planned almost everything myself, right down to the electrical and installation plans. There were permits, building negotiations, regulations and problems I never knew existed before taking this on. I spent months doing as much of the actual work as I could myself and learned an incredible amount along the way.
Not everything went according to plan. Some lessons were expensive, budgets didn't always stay where I expected them to, and being inexperienced sometimes meant learning things the hard way. 😂
That's part of why it isn't finished yet. But the important part is there: a solid foundation for what this place can become.
I know having the opportunity to create something like this is a privilege. The circumstances that put this house into my hands weren't happy ones, though — and maybe that's exactly why it matters so much to me what happens to it next.
This isn't just a dream on a moodboard anymore.
Every wall is standing. The roofs are finished. The windows are in. The technical infrastructure is there. The 85 m² apartment I live in today is almost completely finished inside.
There's still plenty to do — floors, ceilings, finished wall surfaces, bathrooms, furniture, the façade, terraces and all the details that turn construction into home.
But most of the hard structural work is already behind me.
Now comes the part where the vision starts looking like the vision.
I just didn't know that's what it was called.
The electricians and plumbers used to joke that the installations belonged in two or three family homes rather than one.
Looking back at the bathrooms, kitchens, screens, guest spaces, wellness plans and everything else I apparently considered “necessary” … they may have had a point. 😂
A little alpine hideaway for boys like us — somewhere between home, private club and the kind of place where you arrive for dinner and somehow wake up still being there the next morning. 😏
Good people. Good music. Mountain views. Long dinners. Friends staying over. Summer nights. Quiet mornings. And enough space to actually enjoy life together.
The Clubhouse isn’t about turning every weekend into a party. Sometimes it’ll be music, friends and a house full of life. Sometimes it’ll be dinner with a few people, a movie, a long conversation or doing absolutely nothing together.
I want both.
Sport shorts, white socks — a tank top if you're feeling particularly dressed up. 😏
Bring something comfortable to change into. And if you forget: don't worry. The guest wardrobe can handle emergencies.
The house is temperature-controlled accordingly. You'll understand when you get here. 😂Home gym. Sauna. Steam shower. Whirlpool. Plenty of fluffy towels — whether you need one to dry off or suddenly feel the need to cover something. 😇
I should probably budget for a whirlpool filter subscription too. No particular reason. 😂Friends who help build the place may qualify for lifetime Clubhouse privileges.
Being hot is not officially a requirement.
It may, however, speed up the approval process. 😏Straight, bi, gay — honestly, I don’t care. You just have to be completely comfortable with the fact that I like boys and that some of the people having a good time here probably will too.
And if you have a close friend you think would fit in — bring them. They’re welcome too. Good people tend to know good people, and that’s exactly how I’d love this place to grow.
And yes, the dress code still applies to all the boys. Sexual orientation does not get you out of that one. 😉
You might also get more compliments here than you’re used to. Take them. Enjoy them. They don’t come with expectations.
Being open, playful and comfortable around each other only works when everyone respects boundaries — and that’s non-negotiable here.
Not quite. The 85 m² apartment I live in is almost finished inside, while the main part of the house — around 240 m² including the future wellness and fitness area — is being completed step by step. The structure, roofs, windows, technical systems and core infrastructure are already there.
Potentially, yes. 😂 The 85 m² apartment was designed so it can eventually become a fully independent guest apartment once the main house is finished — with its own double garage, some of the largest terrace space on the property and preparations for a second whirlpool. There's also a separate guest room in the main house with its own bathroom, terrace and garden access.
I like having people around. I also like everyone having enough space to close a door and disappear for a while.
Because I didn't want to look back one day and wish I'd prepared for something when I had the chance. During construction, I focused first on the things that would be difficult or ridiculously expensive to change later — excavation, structure, infrastructure, utilities and future access.
I'd rather create the possibility now and decide what to do with it when life gets there.
That's unfinished attic space, already prepared for electricity, plumbing and future stair access. Do I need another 200 m² right now? Absolutely not. 😂 One day it could become more guest space, a studio, something for the Clubhouse — or an idea I haven't had yet.
The rule is simple: the OakMountainBoy Expansion Pack stays locked until the music can pay for it. No streams. No stairs. 😂
In experience after this project? Absolutely. 😂 Financially? Let's just say I've learned that construction budgets have a wonderful sense of humour.
I know having this opportunity is a privilege, but none of it simply appeared finished. It's years of planning, work, mistakes, learning and occasionally some rather expensive lessons.
The dream is big. The budget, unfortunately, still lives in the real world. 😂
It’ll be hearing music from one room, laughter from another and knowing that a place I spent years building has actually come alive.
My grandmother worked throughout her life to give her sons a piece of land they could one day call home.
My father and his dad took that hillside and built on it with their own hands. My parents kept working for the home that gave us a beautiful childhood.
Life wasn't always kind to them, and I found myself carrying responsibility for that home much earlier than I ever expected.
I could have sold it.
It probably would have been the easier life.
Instead, I decided to draw everything again.
New plans. New spaces. A completely new idea of what this place could become.
I kept the foundation of what my family created and started building my own chapter on top of it.
For me, the value of this place was never just in the building itself.
It’s in where it came from, what my family put into it and what I now have the chance to make from it.
I want it to become a place for friendship, love, music, long dinners, ridiculous ideas, quiet mornings — and whatever life brings next.
I have a regular four-day job that gives me stability, and I take it seriously.
But I've never needed a job title to tell me who I am.
My creative side lives somewhere else — especially in music.
OakMountainBoy is where ideas, emotions and stories turn into songs.
I don't know exactly where that journey will eventually lead — and that's part of what I like about it.
I don't need someone to share every passion I have. I need the people close to me to respect that those passions matter to me — and I'll do the same for theirs.
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Apple Fitness, hiking, swimming, winter sports, bowling, my home gym — and maybe tennis again.
Without making it my entire personality. 😄
New city, wellness hotel, beach or that American road trip someday.
New places are good for the mind.
I'm more “breakfast at 10 and let's see where the day takes us” than seven attractions before lunch. 😂
Not every second needs entertainment.
And yes: there's always time for coffee. ☕
I'm genuinely open to meeting new people — not only a potential boyfriend.
I'd rather have a few meaningful friendships than know half the city without really knowing anyone.
And when it comes to friendship, distance doesn't matter much to me.
You could live twenty minutes away, in Paris, Stockholm or somewhere I've never been before.
I actually love the idea of having friends in different places — visiting each other, discovering their city, showing them Tirol and creating memories whenever our paths cross.
We don't need to see each other every week for a friendship to matter.
I'm sex-positive and pretty open-minded — but meeting a stranger specifically to have sex isn't really my thing.
I need to know someone at least a little. I want to feel comfortable, trust the person and actually like being around him before anything sexual happens.
A date with sex already being the expectation would probably make me overthink everything: What if there's no chemistry? What if we simply don't click? Or one of us expects something the other doesn't want?
I'd much rather meet without that pressure. Have a drink. Talk. Laugh. See whether we actually like each other.
And if something happens because we both want it in that moment — great. 😏
If nothing happens, the evening wasn't a failure.
I want to know that I actually enjoy being around you before we find out what else we might enjoy together.
I'm not looking for someone perfect.
I'm looking for someone compatible.
Someone affectionate, curious, emotionally available and comfortable being himself.
I'm very affectionate. I love hugs, kissing, cuddling and those little messages during the day that simply say I'm thinking about you.
I want us to support each other, celebrate the good things, be there when life is difficult and know we can rely on one another.
And yes, I'd confidently say I'm a pretty good kisser.
You'll have to judge that yourself. 😏
Attraction doesn't really follow a checklist. But yes… I have a type.
I usually notice guys with a youthful, natural and masculine energy. Cute, slim or athletic, preferably on the taller side. I'm 182 cm myself, by the way.
Fashionable or jeans-and-T-shirt doesn't really matter. I tend to like relaxed, boyish confidence more than any particular style.
Someone who enjoys life, doesn't take himself too seriously and can still be mature when something actually matters.
Chemistry has a habit of ignoring checklists anyway. 🤍
Maybe this is more than people usually put on a “Meet Me” page.
But I've learned that you can really care about someone and still discover much later that you have completely different ideas about happiness, freedom and what a relationship should feel like.
I don't want to spend another two years with someone before we find that out.
I'd rather be open about the things that matter to me from the beginning — not because everything has to match perfectly, but because the big things should at least point in the same direction.
We can figure out the details together.
I just want us to be building towards the same kind of happiness. 🤍I don't need constant messages or expect someone to be available 24/7. We both have work, plans, friends and lives of our own.
But when I'm genuinely interested in someone, I make space for that person — even if it's just a little message somewhere in between everything else.
That matters to me from the very beginning.
Honesty and reliability are two of the values that matter most to me. If you say you'll do something, I value being able to trust that you mean it.
And freedom only works for me when it comes with honesty. I can handle difficult truths far better than finding out that something happened behind my back. No secret cheating, no double life — just tell me the truth, even when it's uncomfortable.
A great conversation followed by days of silence, disappearing and reappearing whenever it's convenient probably isn't going to work very well for me.
In a relationship, it's much the same.
If we're apart, I don't need hourly updates. A little “made it there,” “going out for dinner now,” or “looks like it's going to be a late one” is enough.
Not because I want to monitor someone.
Because staying connected matters to me. 🤍
Freedom doesn't mean disappearing.
Closeness doesn't mean constant availability.
Somewhere in between is where I feel at home.I want one person to be my partner — the person I'm building my life, home and future with.
I want both of us to have our own friends, interests, experiences and freedom.
I don't want to be your parent, monitor your life or create security through endless rules.
I don't want to own the person I love.
I want him to choose me.
I'm open-minded, but I'm not looking for an open relationship where we're both constantly searching for the next adventure.
I don't want our limited free time to become something we spend separately scrolling through apps, looking for new guys or arranging the next date.
For me, freedom can occasionally add to a relationship — it shouldn't constantly compete with it.
If something playful happens naturally with people we know and trust, and we're both genuinely comfortable with it, I'm open to that.
Either of us should always be able to say “this doesn't feel good anymore” without being made to feel controlling, boring or guilty.
The adventure is optional. 🤍
Secure enough to play with fire — without burning down what we built. 🔥And if somebody else starts becoming emotionally important in a way that competes with our relationship, that's different.
I want one relationship — not parallel ones.
Freedom should make our life bigger — not make either of us feel replaceable.We can give each other space to explore life as long as, at the end of the day, we both still know where we want to be.
For all the big plans I have, my idea of a good life isn't built only around big moments.
Sometimes it's simply deciding what we're having for dinner.
One gets the groceries, the other cooks. Whoever cooks gets out of cleaning the kitchen.
I consider this a perfectly reasonable legal framework. 😂
A drink when we get home. Talking about the best and worst parts of the day. Maybe a workout. Dinner. Another glass. A good conversation.
Then a movie or series and cuddling on the sofa.
Sunday morning might mean breakfast already waiting after I wake you up with a cuddle.
Attraction. Affection. Kissing. Touching. Cuddling. Sex.
Physical connection is important to me. I want affection, attraction and an active sex life to remain part of a relationship.
I like spontaneity, variety and keeping things interesting — without turning intimacy into something that has to happen according to a schedule.
Sometimes work is exhausting and Tuesday night simply isn't going to become particularly exciting. 😂 That's life.
What matters is that affection remains: kissing, hugging, touching, cuddling and still making each other feel wanted.
Intimacy should feel desired, never owed.
We definitely don't need identical lives.
Actually, please have your own interests. I already have enough hobbies for one household. 😂
But everyday compatibility matters.
I'm probably not the perfect match for someone who wants to spend every weekend clubbing or structures his entire existence around the gym and nutrition.
I like staying active.
I also believe pizza deserves constitutional protection. 🍕
I'm an extremely picky eater, so shared cooking may occasionally require diplomatic negotiations.
I enjoy a glass of wine or a cocktail sometimes, but partying isn't the centre of my life. I use IQOS / e-cigarettes.
Pets are a little complicated because I'm allergic to cats and dogs.
Children? I currently imagine my future without them.
Religion? I'm Catholic, but it doesn't play a major role in my everyday life.
And when we're actually spending time together, I like us to be together — not two people permanently somewhere else on a screen.
If we genuinely fit together and one day you could imagine building a life in Tirol, that's what matters.
I wouldn't expect you to arrive with perfect German, the perfect job or your entire future figured out.
English is absolutely enough to start with.
Although sooner or later you'll probably need to understand what people in Tirol are actually saying.
That might be the real challenge. 😂
I'd happily support someone I love while he finds his own footing here. At the same time, I wouldn't want you to give up your identity or become dependent on me.
I wouldn't want you to simply move into my life.
I'd want us to gradually create one that becomes ours. 🤍
I'm ambitious, self-critical and probably a little too perfectionistic for my own good.
When I have an idea, I want to make it happen.
Preferably yesterday.
I can overthink things. I sometimes want an answer to every question. And when I'm focused on a goal, I can become so determined that I forget to enjoy what I've already achieved.
I can also get jealous in certain situations. I'm aware of it.
And I'm learning that trust and honest communication are far more valuable than trying to create security by controlling another person.
I'm not writing this page because I think I've figured everything out.
I'm writing it because I'm getting better at understanding what matters to me.
Ideally, the people close to me and I help each other grow — without constantly trying to turn each other into somebody else. 🤍
Hopefully, eventually, less time spent working simply because I have to — and more time doing things because I genuinely want to.
And yes, I'd love to have the right man beside me for all of that.
Not because I need someone to complete my life.
Because I'd love to have someone I genuinely want to share it with. 🤍You've made it surprisingly far down a website about a stranger from Tirol.
That's probably worth at least saying hello. 😂
Start with that and I'll know you actually read this.
Feel free to send a photo too — I love knowing who I'm talking to. A face is always appreciated. Other body parts can wait until we've actually met. 😂
Tirol, Paris, Stockholm or somewhere I haven't been yet — distance isn't a reason not to say hi.
Let's see where a simple hello goes. 🤍